Shop, Shop Until You drop!!
This morning the girls went shopping while the boys stayed
in the room. One parent from each family had to hang out in the room
between 9:30 AM and 11:00 AM to answer questions. The guides were conducting
official business on our behalf, so we needed to be reachable. It only
made sense that the girls get to shop!! They hopped into a taxi (which is an
adventure within itself) and headed to Shaiman Island for some morning
shopping. This was actually a jumpstart to the 3:00 PM group shopping
trip.
Shaiman Island is a shopping haven for adoptive families.
There are shops in every nook and cranny, including alleys and stairwells.
Some shops are smaller than our closet, while others are the size of an
average American bedroom. Many of the shopkeepers stand out on the sidewalks or courtyards, trying to
direct traffic into their shop. Most shops offer the same items.
Everybody wants to give you a "special friend price" or "an offer that is
just for you". Trying to get a "great deal" is exhausting and time
consuming. It is hard to know if you really succeeded in getting the
best price. Rather than dwelling on whether we overpaid for something
here or there, we just tried to get what we wanted at the best price.
There really is no room for regret, as we will probably not be in China
again anytime soon. If we loved it, we bought it! Surprisingly, we
really did not buy as much as we expected. How many Chinese dresses and
tea sets does one need? There really was very little to buy for the
older kids or the men folk. Most of the shops catered to babies
and toddlers. The squeaky shoes are probably one of the most popular
items. Before coming to China, we were hoping to get an oil painting
of the kids, but the price is much steeper than we expected (about $200 US
dollars).
One of the highlights of our day was stumbling upon an
elementary school during their 5:30 PM dismissal. All of the children
were in uniforms that looked like athletic sweatshirts with a red kerchief
around their neck. Parents gathered around, some were on foot, others
on motorbikes. It is something to see two parents and a child on a
motorcycle (not wearing helmets)! Outside the school grounds, there is
an open cement courtyard where sports, such as soccer, are played.
Near this "athletic field" is also a playground, which also is more like an
outdoor courtyard with play equipment. Foam flooring was present, but
it looked like cement. These play areas were located on a large
island surrounded by streets. Hopefully, the pictures will give you a
better perspective.
In China, traffic never stops for pedestrians. It is
amazing that we have not seen anyone get run over. We were told that
if you hesitate or stop, the traffic will continue to move around you.
It is true!! Everybody seems to be in a hurry!! Honking is
common!!
Tomorrow we will take group pictures with the babies.
Twenty-six babies in all!! That should be interesting!! In
addition to pictures, we have to go to the US Consulate to take an Oath and
to get Faith's visa. It is hard to believe that we have only one more
full day in China. As much as we are excited to get Faith home, we are
somewhat sad to be leaving China. It is a beautiful place! A
place where one of our greatest blessings was bestowed upon us. Our
prayers are with the Chinese families, particularly those that are mourning
the loss of the daughter that we are now holding in our arms and hearts
forever.
God Bless! Sorry for the late post!!